Transient

i am starting to think that transient friendships might just be a character deficit of mine. it's not that i get bored of people[as what kenny always tells me. bitch], it's more of life moving too fast. going with the flow invariably leads to friendships lost along the way, reduced to one of those hihowreyoudoing on facebook posts, either that or an over-enthusiastic bigassgirlyhug and loud exclamations of OHIVEMISSEDYOU when i actually haven't 

just a few of my gripes today, that i'm not that good at balancing my friends. then again when i was telling sally, we agreed that a few constant groups of friends should suffice. coming and going is just part and parcel of what we deal with. and i have to admit la, i don't put nearly enough effort into maintaining friendships. then again, friendships, in an ideal world, should come by naturally and not us having to force them into existence! a fine example would be the stupid class outings that we shun.. 

being a girl and dealing with girl politics is a major stinker. when boys don't see each other it's just a hey how're you and a few friendly grunts handed around. whereas somehow girls have to go through a whole plethora of put-on emotions, exaggerated claims of OHMYGOD yadayada.. i have been guilty of that, but i'm starting to think it's more of a social phenomenon and i simply have to act my part

being a girl is gross sometimes.. but beats the boys going off for bmt! PHUKET next week as a pre-bmt celebration of sorts. i can't wait :D sun , sand, sea and my favourite clique with me as the groupie, what's not to love